QOS question - phsyical port speed override?

Hello, 

First, I'm very new to QOS and learing quickly on the fly. Basically the QOS configs kind sucked, my boss (CCIE) tasked me with wiping them out and redoing them from scratch for the enterprise. they were not working or harldy working anyway. 

I have worked with some very knowlegeable people at juniper TAC and got my switch configs down, and then we moved to the SRX i have 90% of those down but i hit a snag

our circuits are only 10Mb connected to 100Mb ports, and our HQ is 250Mb connected to a 1Gb port. 

I tried this 

https://www.juniper.net/documentation/en_US/junos14.1/topics/topic-map/policer-single-rate-two-color-bandwidth.html#jd0e615

but it still show as a GB link in the que, and all my ques go away? 

from interface extensive command 

before

CoS information:

    Direction : Output

    CoS transmit queue               Bandwidth               Buffer Priority   Limit

                              %            bps     %           usec

    0 ezqos-best-effort      30      300000000    50              0      low    none

    4 ezqos-video-fc         50      500000000    20              0      low    none

    5 ezqos-voice-fc          r              r    20              0 strict-high    none

    7 ezqos-control-fc        r              r    10              0     high    none

After

  CoS information:

    Direction : Output

    CoS transmit queue               Bandwidth               Buffer Priority   Limit

                              %            bps     %           usec

    0 ezqos-best-effort      95      950000000    95              0      low    none

    3 network-control         5       50000000     5              0      low    none

????

does anybody know how to set this up in a simple yet effective way (my goal of this whole thing)