Hello,
-----original packet----- 00:c0:89:1b:04:c3 > ff:ff:ff:ff:ff:ff, ethertype ARP (0x0806), length 60: arp who-has 109.3.4.88 tell 217.2.1.81
Your upstream router uses sender protocol address that is on a different subnet than 109.3.4.88.
This ARP request won't be replied to unless You configure proxy ARP
https://kb.juniper.net/InfoCenter/index?page=content&id=KB26906
Best course of action would be to fix Your upstream provider but in the meantime please add this line to the config:
set interfaces reth0.0 proxy-arp restricted ## You can try unrestricted as well
Then re-test and report back.
HTH
Thx
Alex